A very first relation was made — "A Mate”. Not mother, Not father, Not sibling. But—A SOUL MATE, In the form of Hazrat Adam (A. S) and Bibi Hawa in the sky.
A “soul” was made but a soul craved for a “mate” Hence a “couple” created for the comfort of the soul. I repeat; A very first relation before it became the world.
Mate is a comfort to the soul to both. What we want in life? JUST A COMFORT. For this nikkah system is obligated so that the couple feel the comfort at will.
Marriage is a start to one's life. Let not end it or hectic it over tiny-problems. Let not tug it to the discomfort-level. A high level of discomfort is prevailed in this relationship after marriage over mediocre things. Then, these problems touch the pinnacles of discomforts. Once we get accepted each other even in flaws, even in ups & downs and get overlooked slight concerns, then, Definitely a level of comfort may be settled down. Usually, Relations are much more above than problems. The problems may be solved but not the relations, if once gone. For this respect is a mandatory that must be maintained and it is the only thing that keeps every relation connected. Respect is a coalition of every relation.
Another thing that get closer a soulmate is a honey-moon process soon after marriage. Primary reason for this is that the duos stay mentally-calm so that they may understand each other feel comfortable, raise breed and progeny. 😂😂😂 A U-turn to newness, joy and the trio. The one who is mentally wired is unable to move towards the trio.
This is directed to all duos that is a beautiful relation. It is first-made relation. If anything has been a messy, let it be sorted out. Give time to each other. Think of your relationship by letting your ego down. Go for a trip or outing carrying away all the mess. Let the soul meet to the mate and mate to the soul so that the beauty of soulmate bolstered and laugh.
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