FOUR PEOPLE
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I have been listening since my childhood.
"What four will say"?
A worm thyself.
Lethal of others.
Cause of frustration.
Add fuel to fire
These four people can never be happy in your happiness, they will drag you to THE WORST.
Ours' society puts value to this lethal group who blow their leg in every matter. This is common-shared problem of everyone.
When a girl go for higher education, first thing comes in ours' mind. ,"What four people will say?
▶Without caring that: A girl is being deprived of higher education.
"May this education be beneficial in standing on his feet in hard-times"
A girl is being deprived of socialism.
May this socialism/different minds, be beneficial in tackling people at every of path of life. You become ready to make a girl deprived of education & confidence, for these four people.
When a girl still in graduation, four people start talking.. "Think for her she has come of her age to get married".
Under continous pressure of four people, parents get ready to tie a daughter with a matchless groom. Thus a girl continues her devasted married life for the sake of four people.
▶Without caring that: An innocency of a girl is being snatched. Dreams of a girl are being killed. Inner-self is being removed. One must ask a daughter what she wants? before making her a puppet infront of inlaws.
If there occurs a couple fight: first thing a couple hears, why are you shouting "What four people will say"?
▶Without caring that: A couple is being passing through a difficult situation/problem. A couple is being mentally disturbed. A couple needs counseling at that time from elders to sort out a problem.
We are unable to repeat ours' expensive dress, that what people will say?
▶Without caring that: Wardrobe is being fulled with collections of summer, midsumme, winter, fall for the sake of four people. Greed is being increased. Expenses are being crossed.
Fabric has been made as to be covered not as to be shownoff. There is nothing any shame to repeat a same stuff.
When a home is happy with family, is happy with daughter in law and son etc.
These four people will try to spoil a family by inquiring, and that home listen them carefully.
▶Without caring that: family is being scattered. misunderstanding is being spread. Disturbance is being created.
You may not let your pleasure to be spoiled for these four people.
When a married girl fails to have a kid after a some time. these four people begin to demoralize, telling stories of others.
Then You become hasty to have a kid.
▶Without caring that: A girl is being mentally/physically distrubed. A girl is being depressed.
Detailed solace/A very good console is needed here alongwith alittle amount of medicine. Let not yourself so quick in the matter of ALLAH.
These four people will not let you to have a sigh of relief in both condition (good or bad). They just need a topic to talk about?
Don't let these four people to hold your cup of tea.
They are not actually, neither the ones who design your life nor decision-maker.
It is request to all to stop making your life a stage show. You are created to satiate your thyself-soul ,to enrich it with good vibes-- not to satiate others, They are actually a slow-poision. If you pay attention to them, means you are having slow-poision, by this when you die one.
These same four people say :
إنا لله وإنا إليه راجعون
-----MAHI SAJJAD------
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