4 TOXIC BELIEFS.....
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4 Toxic Beliefs You Must Let Go,
If You Want A Happy Life.
Take ownership of your negative beliefs, remove them, and enjoy a higher quality life.
A life filled with negativity is not created by bad luck or circumstance, it is created by negative beliefs and a negative mindset. It is created by conditioning. By repeated habits, conscious, or unconscious.
If you want to live free from negativity, it is your own mind that needs correcting, not other people or the circumstances that arrive in your life.
Here are 4 toxic habits and beliefs you should let go of, if you want to live a high quality, happy life.
▶Number 1. Blaming. Believing that it’s always someone else’s fault.
▶Number 2. Believing everything you hear/not having a mind of your own.
▶Number 3. The belief that you need other people to complete you.
▶Number 4. Allowing money to control your decisions.
Let’s dive into these toxic habits and beliefs and correct them, so you can improve your quality of life.
➡Number 1. Blaming. Believing that it’s always someone else’s fault.
Many people blame just about everyone and every-thing as the reason the aren’t where they want to be in life. Everyone that is, except themselves. It’s always someone else’s fault they aren’t where they want to be.
It’s the presidents fault… it’s my bosses fault… it’s my partners fault… it’s everyone else’s fault they aren’t where they want to be…
People do you wrong, I get it. But you know the difference between a successful, or happy mindset and an unsuccessful or unhappy life? I’ll tell you… It is – The power of letting go and moving on.
Everyone shares the same president… some focus on all the negative… some just focus on their own path. They might not like the president, or their boss, or certain circumstances, but they don’t allow any of it to invade their energy.
"If I want a result in my life… it’s up to me. If I want to feel a certain way… the only person that controls if I do or do not feel that way… is me.
If someone screws me over, I choose how I react, and what I learn from the situation. Ask yourself: What did I do to allow that to happen, how can I avoid that pattern recurring in the future? What GOOD could come of it?
If I am going to get out of this situation it is NOT going to happen by holding on, or by blaming…If I want to be free… I have to let go, accept where I am and take responsibility for what needs to be done to get where I want to be".
That’s the only way things will get better. You will never get better by blaming others, regardless of who was right or wrong. YOU will never win in life that way. YOU can only win by letting go and focusing all your energy on where you want to be.
➡Number 2. The toxic habits of gossiping, believing everything you hear and not having a mind of your own.
This really comes down to common sense and common decency.
Have you ever noticed how people who gossip a lot, aren’t the happiest of people? How could they be, they are more focused on spreading rumours or talking negatively about other people than their own quality of life.
Such mindset leads mind full of dust and rust. There remains no purification of mind and heart. When your heart is not purified, how'ld you bow down to ALLAH. When religion needs nothing more than purification in every espect. Ground reality is that man should remain focused on building connection with ALLAH with all purification and free of all guilts.
Have you noticed how happy and successful people have a mind of their own, and they rarely speak negatively about anyone or any subject? They don’t believe everything they hear, and they never act on gossip or opinions of others. Because they are very well known about ground realities and the self-motive.
Live a life free from gossip, and speaking or believing negatively of others. Form your own opinions based off your interactions with others, your feelings, your intuition and qualm.
➡Number 3. I need other people to complete me.
This is one of the biggest problems of humanity. The need to be loved and liked by other people. The attachment to other people.
Many people simply can’t function unless they are in a relationship with another. The second they aren’t their life is an immediate emergency mode. They feel less than. They feel incomplete.
No other person can or will ever complete you. Only you can make yourself feel whole, and you can only do that by understanding that YOU are in control of that. No-one else.
Putting your quality of life in the hands of someone whose feelings are completely out of your control is insanity.
You can still love. You can still enjoy and appreciate others. But don’t get attached to them. Allow them to be free, and allow yourself to be free as well. You ARE that important. When you are you, you are satisfied-soul. When you are other, you are unsatisfied-soul.
➡Number 4 . It’s all about money
Now, this may get confusing with the point above being about creating wealth… so listen closely.
Money is a way, Its destinarion is a journey of hardwork thereto strategies and purpose. It is ours' need--Not motive.
There is NOTHING wrong with making money… and if you are adding value, in whatever you do, you won’t have to worry about money coming in… it will come in abundance…
This is for all of you who live your life with money as your motivation… you’re driven by money.
Think about WHY you want the money?
↗If you say you want it to make a better life for your family…
↗Why do you want a better life for your family?
↗So they don’t struggle like you did, so they can be happy?
↗Why do you need that…
All of your answers come back to one main answer:
You really want it so you can be happy, and have more LOVE.
Think about it. You want to be successful and wealthy because you believe at a deep level you will get more love, respect, attention if you have it…
Point is, you don’t need it to be happy. You don’t need it to have LOVE in your life.
Ask any rich person, they will tell you. It’s not the money that makes you successful… it’s the journey and your purpose that makes you successful.
I see so many parents who fight so hard for money saying they want to give their kids a better life… but, while they are obsessed with money they miss their kids growing up, they aren’t there for their kids… all children want is ATTENTION and love… they don’t care about money and material things… they want to be seen and heard.
That’s what everyone wants, that’s what you want… and you don’t need money for that…
So… maybe you should through away those crappy plans you had to make a billion dollars and instead focus on doing something you would love to do, that will add value to others… it might only make you a lousy million… but at least you will have what everyone is seeking: LOVE and happiness.
If you notice toxic beliefs or habits within you, be one of the few to acknowledge them, and change something.
😉YOU ARE THAT IMPORTANT.
😉YOU DO DESERVE IT ALL..
---------MAHI SAJJAD------------
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