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DONT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE CONTROLLED BY THESE FIVE THINGS:

Many people spend their lives at the mercy of circumtances. Living at the mercy of what happens to them. Living at the mercy of other people. Not living in the present, because they are stuck in the prison of their  past. If you want to live in a GREAT life. Dont allow yourself to be controlled by any of these things--

1. YOUR PAST.

2. OTHER PEOPLES' OPINION & JUDGEMENT

3. LIMITED BELIEFS YOU PROJECT ON YOURSELF.

4. RELATIONSHIP

5. MONEY

1. YOUR PAST:

Don't allow your past to controll your present or your future-life. Whatever happens you must let it go. Leave the pain of your past behind. So it can't ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind. So it can't block the light of your bright future. Your past is gone, Whatever happened, whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case, relieving the events will never do you any good. If someone did you wrong the only way you can win is is "let go" and move on. If you live in the hate, they win. If you live in the victim-story, they win. If you want to win you must focus on building your future and start right now. Release that weight from your back,  So you can be free. Don't allow events of the past, which are now gone to win this moment. Which is perfect-this moment which is now to enjoy, which is ready for you to LIVE FULLY.

2. 

Don't allow other peoples' opinions & judgement to control the direction of your life ! The need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you dont want to travel. "People-pleasing is a curse". that should be avoided at all costs. Before you  do anything ask yourself. Am I   doing this because I want to do it or because of fear of my judgement to others' opinions, if dont. You were born unique- for a reason. You were born to stand-up to be appreciated and loved for- WHO YOU ARE. Don't dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other peoples' lives. Shine bright, AS YOU ARE!  Those who are really carefull to you will see that light and shine with you.

3. LIMITED BELIEFS:

Don't allow your life to be controlled by your own limited beliefs:
Now,  A warning with this one. These beliefs may be conscious, but more than likely, they are unconscious, They may be unconscious limitation, that have been continued from a young-age and thought entire-life by listening to those arround you. Who never reached for their own dreams, Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut-up. There is NOTHING you can't do. There is NOTHING you can't have. NO ONE you can't become. If you believe in yourself ! If you believe anything is possible, guess what! anything IS POSSIBLE ! .
When you change your belief from limited to unlimited . Your potential is unlimited. Imagine what you could achieve, If you lived for life as though ANYTHING is possible as though MIRACLES are a standard requirment of everyday. " As the saying goes!  When there is no any enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm". When you have nothing inside holding you back, there is nothing outside that can hold you either! .
Your entire-life will change  the very instant, you decide to change your mindset. The instant you decide to see everything as a gift. When you decide to see every circumtance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse. The very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything is as it should be and know that fighting WHAT is insane.

4. RELATIONSHIPS:

DONT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE CONTROLLED BY THESE FIVE THINGS:
A touchy-subject !
But, if you are always needing another to be happy to feel complete then you are always one moment away from a breakdown. If that person leaves you or unhappiness , If the relationship you are in is not going well-- I m not suggesting to avoid relationship. "There is no force on EARTH greater than LOVE & CONNECTION". I am talking about those who can't live, If they are in a relationship.
Those who will be with just about anyone, including all the wrong ones, just to avoid spending a moment being single. What I am saying is to develop enough mental strength that you get to the point, when you don't need others to make you happy. You are just as happy being alone  as you are in relationship.

5.DONT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE CONTROLLED BY THESE FIVE THINGS: This is what controlls the majority of humans on the planet. Can u guess what it is ............ MONEY.

This doesn't mean you should not want abundance. It doesn't mean money is evil. You know as well as I do what great things you can do and how many people you can help with money. What this mean is. don't allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something ONLY on the factor of how much money is involved.  You've just made the wrong decision, what you will find, is that when you follow your heart and you lead with your intention to SERVE others, to give your best to others- EVERY SINGLE TIME, when you follow your intention and truely GIVE your soul.... then the money will come in for great amounts. Then if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money. So, challenge yourself to live the life, You want to live, free from being controlled by "ANYTHING", find your freedom LIVE FULLY.

-----------------------MAHI SAJJAD-------------=------

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